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ANNOUNCEMENT: Interview With One of College Baseball Elites!!!

Interview Chat with Louisville University Cardinal baseball player Phil Wunderlich. Phil is a standout player and the #1 hitter for the Cardinals. His outstanding play helped Louisville make it to the Super Regional of the NCAA Division I Baseball Championships.

Where: The Athlete’s Sports Experience

When: Sunday July 12th at 6:30pm central time (7:30 eastern)

Come join Phil and I as we discuss his baseball experiences in youth and high school Baseball, as a Division I college player, his future aspirations, along with other important issues facing high level athletes today. It should be an enjoyable evening as you will get to join in on the conversation and interact with Phil during and at the end of our interview.

How often do young athletes, parents, and coaches get a chance to listen and interact with a top level athlete as they go through the ups and downs that elite college sports encompass? It should be a great night. Hope to see you there.

And stay tuned in to my blog to find out who and when the next athlete will be to appear on The Athlete’s Sports Experience.

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Interview With a National Gymnastics Champion, Elite College Ball Player, & Major League Ball Player

In keeping with my purpose of giving young athletes, parents, and coaches valuable information about youth sports, I have planed several interview chats with some highly successful athletes. These competitors have been through it all.

The first interview chat will be with a USA Gymnastics National Champion on June 30th at 7:00pm central time so mark your calendars (announcement below).

ANNOUNCEMENT:

Interview Chat with the 2009 Level 10
National Gymnastics Champion
Keeley Kmieciak

Where: The Athlete’s Sports Experience

When: Tuesday June 30th at 7:00pm central time

Come join Keeley and I as we discuss her experience at the USA Gymnastics Championships, life as a gymnast, her future aspirations, and other issues facing high level athletes. It should be an enjoyable evening as you may get a chance to interact with Keeley at the end of our interview. Hope to see you there.

The second interview chat will be in July with a top level ball player from Louisville University’s (Big East Champions and NCAA qualifier), and the third in September with a pitcher from Bradley University who was selected as the 8th round draft pick for the Colorado Rockies major league baseball team.

All have had a wealth of youth sports experiences and are willing to share them with those who are interested.

It is not everyday that you get a chance to hear directly from athletes of this caliber, so please feel free to join us and find out what it’s really all about.

And stay tuned in to my blog to get the actual dates and times for the next two sessions.

Kirk Mango
“The Athlete’s Sports Experience: Making a Difference”
http://www.becomingatruechampion.blogspot.com/
“Becoming a True Champion”
http://www.becomingatruechampion.com/

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Process Over Outcome: Has America Forgotten?

The first half of this post’s title takes direct aim at something I have spent a good deal of time referencing in many of my articles pertaining to youth sports. What I would like to do here is step back from that environment for a moment, taking a look at this idea of process over outcome, and the loss thereof, as it relates to the “big picture” – our society as a whole. Before I go ahead with my rant on this topic, it might be a good idea to define these two terms as they pertain to the relationship I am about to draw between them and what I see as a shift in American ideals.

What I mean when I refer to the term “process” is the actual work and/or effort that one essentially puts into a task. It is demonstrated by a clear and organized path that takes into account what is to be done today, tomorrow, and in the future. One who focuses more on the process takes great care in clarifying for themselves how what they are doing today will build on what they want to do tomorrow. “Winning” today is not as important to one who prioritizes the process as is building toward consistent success down the road. It is more of a long-term approach that lends itself to continued gains and achievement through time rather than immediate gains in the here and now. Making sacrifices now for possible future successes later fits well with the idea of “process” type thinking.

Conversely, the outcome is the end result, the “reward” so to speak. It is the “gains” one has or gets after the work has been completed and/or choices have been made. It is characterized, at least in reference to what I am discussing here, as more of a short-term approach. Concentration and focus is weighted toward ways to achieve that outcome in the shortest and most efficient way possible – this is of utmost importance. “Winning” today is of high priority, even if it may negatively impact the future. The impact on this future that today’s decisions have 2, 5, 10, or 20 years down the road is looked at as something that can be dealt with later, when or if those impacts materialize. It is not of primary concern at this immediate juncture. Making sacrifices now that would limit current gains is not something indicative of outcome-type thinking, rather it centers on accomplishing short-term-type goals.

Now that we have those clarifications and definitions to work with, let’s take a look at how things have changed. Most of you reading this post are either 3rd, 4th, or maybe even 5th generation immigrants, meaning that you, as I (3rd generation), come from descendants who came to the United States to make a new life for themselves. Many did this with little or nothing but the clothes on their back, building their lives and supporting their families from the ground up. They were a hard working lot who focused on the “process” of putting in a full day’s work, and then some, building something from nothing. Their approach exemplified the definition I am using for the term “process” in this article. Sure they were concerned about future outcomes. It was (and is) impossible not to be – it is part of the equation, but their attitudes and work ethic were most certainly weighted toward the idea of process over outcome.

As we move forward through time to today, we see a gradual but definite shift from the focus just described to one where behavior and attitudes become more outcome-centered. Gaining immediate gratification or short-term access to success has become a top priority. Many are willing to seek out shortcuts toward what they want to “achieve” as concentration, focus, and effort move in the direction of the ends over the means, and all too often with little or no consideration of the risk or cost to oneself or to others.

In order to clarify and add credibility to the statements listed above, let me take a moment to list some fairly recent events supporting my conclusions:

a. Auto Manufacturers – whether they want to admit it or not, the American auto industry has placed themselves in a position of possible non-existence due in large part to their inability to see the “big picture.” While their counterparts focused on the longer term process of building high quality automobiles that gave owners better gas mileage and provided an in-road to a more solid future for themselves, our short-term outcome-based automakers concentrated their efforts on gas-guzzling SUV’s and luxury vehicles (something the short-term outcome-based American consumer helped support). In the end, it all boiled down to making money now over making consistent money over time. It is not to say that those types of vehicles should not have been offered, there was and is a limited need; however, it is difficult to argue with the idea that our countries automakers had their eyes on the immediate $$$$$ that could be made. At least much more so than on a “process” that would guarantee future success and longevity.

b. Enron Scandal – a situation where a company’s (and/or executives within that company) greed and focus on making money - the outcome, came before anything else. And at a big cost to many.

c. Other Big Business Scandals – if you Google “scandals in big business” the list that comes up is wide and varied. Most all causes eventually boil down to finding ways to circumvent the “process” in order to quickly get to an “outcome,” or $$$$$.

d. NCLB & Schools – as partially inferred in my last blog Things Your Kids Didn’t Learn in School and the Youth Sports Environment, our schools are heavily focused on the end result. Emphasis is moving away from counting efforts put forth for practice and homework – “process,” and being placed only on test scores, especially standardized test scores – “outcome.”

e. PED & Steroid Scandals – even though major league baseball is currently getting the brunt of publicity regarding their use, I can assure you that these illegal substances are used as a means to gain access to success for too many in professional, Olympic, and elite level sports. The outcome-based focus here – fame, fortune, glitzy lifestyles, winning at all costs, and (false) achievement.

f. U.S. Government – often times uses a “band aid” approach to addressing financial issues borrowing from Peter to pay Paul. How long can we actually borrow from funds saved for other means, and from other countries, to build roads, pay bills, or any number of other things, and not dig a hole so deep that we cannot ever recover. Making things better for the short term without truly considering the long-term risk is central to an outcome-weighted approach, at least as to how I have defined it here.

g. Youth Sports – the emphasis in youth sports today that places winning as the #1 priority and/or the scholarship as the reason for sports participation, both of which lend themselves toward the less rewarding aspects of an outcome-based foundation.

I am sure there are other aspects I am not aware of that many could add to this list; however, the items above help to prove my point inferred in the title of this blog. That we, as a society, may truly have forgotten an important foundational principle; one that was part of an internal strength that Americans and America had at its core.

So even though this blog, and my general focus, centers on youth sports and positively impacting its participants, this issue of placing more emphasis on outcomes rather than the process seems to be symptomatic of a bigger problem affecting our society as a whole.

From my vantage point, when our approach to gaining success and achieving goals becomes so heavily weighted toward the “end result,” or outcome, with little consideration for the consequences of that approach, or process used, then trouble usually follows. Looking at the list I provided certainly helps to justify that conclusion.

Whether in work, sports, or life in general, focusing in on the process with the understanding that the outcome is a byproduct of this process, gives advantages not easily seen from the outside. It is central to the intrinsic value one receives and pride one feels when true and real accomplishment is achieved, creating the type of success that lasts from generation to generation.

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Things Your Kids Didn’t Learn in School and the Youth Sports Environment

In perusing the internet, talking to colleagues, and sharing information from within the teaching and coaching profession, I come across interesting bits and pieces of information that force reflection. One such piece was recently emailed to me by a colleague and it is one I have seen circulate on the internet from several different sources.

It is claimed by some to be a piece from a speech Bill Gates gave to a group of high school students. However, it actually comes from the teachings of Charles J. Sykes, author of “Dumbing Down our Kids” and “50 Rules Kids Won’t Learn in School.”

Most discussions using this information list 11 things that kids won’t learn in school and are directed toward high school and college-age students. Actually, the original list contains 14, with the last 3 usually omitted. I will provide the complete list of 14 in this blog.

There are probably many who have seen this list before; those that have might wonder why I am taking the time to post a blog regarding them on a youth sports blog/website. However, as I take time to read through the list of items, I could not help but reflect on whether the underlying message most of these concepts convey had relevance to the youth sports environment I am trying to impact, something I will raise questions about at the end of this blog.

As you read through the list below, keep in mind that the information was targeted to high school and college-age students, albeit based on what they learned up to and through that age bracket. And that the emphasis in Mr. Sykes’ books come from a position of the “system” (school system) creating a generation of young adults who have no concept of reality and/or the real world, possibly setting them up for failure. Here is the list:

Rule 1: Life is not fair - get used to it!

Rule 2 : The world won't care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.

Rule 3 : You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both.

Rule 4 : If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss.

Rule 5 : Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: they called any chance to work an opportunity.

Rule 6: If you mess up, it's not your parents' fault, so don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them.

Rule 7: Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you thought you were. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parents’ generation, try delousing the closet in your own room.

Rule 8: Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools, they have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.

Rule 9: Life is not divided into semesters. You don't get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that on your own time.

Rule 10: Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.

Rule 11: Be nice to nerds. Chances are you'll end up working for one.

Rule 12: Smoking does not make you look cool. It makes you look moronic. Next time you’re out cruising, watch an 11-year-old with a butt in his mouth. That’s what you look like to anyone over 20. Ditto for “expressing yourself” with purple hair and/or pierced body parts.

Rule 13: You are not immortal. (See Rule No. 12.) If you are under the impression that living fast, dying young and leaving a beautiful corpse is romantic, you obviously haven’t seen one of your peers at room temperature lately.

Rule 14: Enjoy this while you can. Sure parents are a pain, school’s a bother, and life is depressing. But someday you’ll realize how wonderful it was to be a kid. Maybe you should start now. You’re welcome.

Before I continue relating this to youth sports I think it best to get some facts straight regarding when this material was written, where the pendulum is currently swinging, and where the implied emphasis of responsibility is placed for success.

Sykes’ book, “Dumbing Down our Kids,” was published in 1996, a good distance of time from our current year of 2009, and a lot can happen in 13 years. In contrast, “50 Rules Kids Won’t Learn in School” was published in 2007. Presently, I have only read other individuals’ accounts of both of these pieces, but I would venture to guess that his “50 Rules” book expands on the concepts he presents in “Dumbing Down our Kids” just based on the titles alone and the list of some of his “rules” above.

With regard to that pendulum swinging, many of you would be surprised to learn that some schools are moving toward giving ½ credit to students for work (homework) that is either done poorly or not even turned in. For example, I gave an 18-point assignment recently that approximately 50% of a class did not even bother to turn in. Under the stipulation above, I would have to give 9 points minimum to everyone even if they made more mistakes than that, or did not turn in the worksheet.

The idea behind this is that if I actually gave them the score they “earned,” like say a "0", and they continued to do poorly on work, or didn’t bother to do it, they would put themselves so far behind they would not be able to pass the course in fairly short order. That giving them more opportunity to right the ship, so to speak, is a better method for learning than is applying the natural consequences that exist based on the effort they put in (or based on what they really know at the time), thus keeping the student from digging themselves a hole they cannot get out of.

Taking it a step further, there is a good deal of talk about not counting any homework toward their grade, a step up from #8 on the list of letting students re-do work until they get it right and then counting it toward their grade. That as long as they do well on tests and other assessments, that is all that matters.

In this type of framework, much more emphasis is placed on the outcome with little reward on the actual efforts put in on the process – so outcome over process. This is something I have emphasized on many occasions as being a big issue in the youth sports environment. To me, there should always be a more balanced approach that emphasizes the process over the outcome. That principle alone accounted for much of my success as an athlete, as a coach, and as a teacher.

Now I should point out that I don’t follow the “new age” concepts I discussed above myself simply because I do not believe them to be appropriate for the age I teach, high school. I could write pages of details as to why this is the case; however, let me just say that I am much more inclined to support the idea of allowing one to get what one actually earns. Even though very blunt and possibly a little harsh, I suppose I am pretty much in line with the list of items suggested by Sykes. I most certainly could apply many, if not all, of them in some way, shape or form to what happened to me, or for me, in my athletic career.

Bringing this conversation back full circle, what I find most interesting about Sykes’ list is the way he tactfully implies that the responsibility for one’s success lies within the individual themselves, the choices they make and the perception they take. Anyone reading through many of my blog posts on youth sports will surely notice the same underlying theme.

From my vantage point as a teacher, former coach, and parent of athletes who have grown up through the current youth sports environment, I see the same type of issues with too many adolescents and athletes in high school. It is becoming much more difficult to find young athletes today who have the fortitude and perseverance to take personal responsibility themselves for achieving what they want, have the perspective it takes to do so, and make the types of choices necessary to accomplish personal and team goals that are set. And I find the relationship between what Sykes implies and what I am discussing in youth sports to be something worth pondering.

With that purpose in mind, I would like to create several questions that promote thought on the topic I have presented. Hopefully, they will initiate good discussion on that list of things that kids won’t learn in school and their possible relationship to youth sports.

Questions to ponder:

1. What relationship, if any, do you see between Sykes’ list and youth sports?

2. Is this list something that is “all” age-encompassing, gradual in nature – so as to encompass age-appropriate application, or is it simply not applicable to youth sports in any form?

3. Are there other implied meanings within that have relevance to the environment our young athletes are growing up in today? (I have a few more)

4. Are there specific rules on this list that seem to have a more direct relationship to youth sports? Others that don’t apply at all?

5. Do any of these have personal connection for you, something that you emphasized as a parent and maybe hoped your kids might learn through their participation in sports?

6. Anything else you might want to add to the conversation?

Your thoughts and discussion are welcome and encouraged. Please elaborate and give examples whenever possible. It will help with continued discussion and create better clarity.

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Top 50 Of All Time At Northern Illinois University

I was surprised and humbled by a phone call I received from a former professor, Dr. Hubie Dunn, at Northern Illinois University this past Thursday night. He had called to inform me of my selection by the Northern Star (the NIU official newspaper) as one of the Top 50 of All Time who have competed for the Huskies. I was in even more shock when he told me that I was chosen #8 on a list of athletes that included the #16th round pick in the 2009 NFL draft Larry English and former NFL player and Heisman trophy candidate LeShon Johnson. This is in addition to other current/former NFL players, basketball greats, and a slew of other well-deserving athletes from a variety of sports.

It was very unexpected and I would like to personally take a moment to thank the University, the Northern Star, and anyone else associated with the selection process. I am honored that all of you would consider me one among such a prestigious group of athletes. The opportunity that NIU gave me, not only as an athlete but as a student, was extraordinary as it holds a special place for me as one of the best experiences in my life. I will never forget my time at Northern and can only wish that every collegiate athlete has an experience as positive as the one I had there.

Thanks for the memories NIU!!!

And to all parents of young athletes who might read this post, make sure to keep everything in perspective. The process will always outweigh the outcome.

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Open Chat Discussion on Issues in Youth Sports Today

I recently made contact with an individual who is also concerned about the current youth sports environment. So much so he created a website called Repairing Youth Sports to express his concerns. This prompted an invitation to him for an open chat, to be held at my blog this Tuesday evening at 8:00pm central time, to discuss whatever issues come up in relation to that topic. Hopefully the exchange of ideas between everyone present will benefit all. There will be a wide array of viewpoints from all over the spectrum. Hope to see you there.

Best

Kirk
The Athlete's Sports Experience: Making a Difference

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The Rise in Youth Sports Injuries

In my article, Specializing in Youth Sports, Good or Bad, I touched on the current increase in injuries to young competitors playing sports. Just the fact that the sheer number of young athletes participating has gone up over the last several decades, would automatically cause an upswing in the number of young sports enthusiasts having to seek medical attention. There is just an inherent physical risk in competitive sports that cannot be denied.

However, it does appear (even with the greater numbers participating) that the number of young athletes being injured, and the severity of those injuries, is quite large. If my memory serves me correct, I believe there were about 6 out of the 18 soccer players (or 1/3rd of the team) on my oldest daughter’s club soccer team (sophomores) that had torn their ACL. And 4 of those 6 eventually went on to tear the ACL of the opposite knee as well. These are some pretty serious injuries requiring major reconstructive surgery, something I never even heard of when I was competing in high school. I mean you did hear of the occasional male athlete blowing their knee in football, but that just did not seem to me to be as common as it is today. Even walking the halls in the high school where I teach I see more athletes on crutches, in casts, boots, and/or ace wraps (both male and female) than I can ever remember from my day. Sure you did see or hear about it at the professional levels of some sports, but that was expected.

The question then becomes, “Why?” I am sure there is more than one answer to this question. First (as I mentioned in the first paragraph), the large increase in numbers participating today compared to years past would suggest an increase in the number of injuries sustained. It is just a matter of percentages; more people equals more injuries.

Secondly, the continuous repetition of the same muscle groups doing the same thing all the time, especially when athletes specialize in one sport, can and does cause imbalances in muscle groups (around joints) if consideration is not given to proper training for this possibility. Now I do not want to give anybody the idea that specializing in one sport is a “bad” thing (my feelings on both sides of this issue are detailed in my 3 part article, Specializing in Youth Sports, Good or Bad), just that it is a factor needing to be considered when discussing the increase of youth sport injuries.

There is also research that demonstrates the increased risk to females, most notably at the knee, over males due to anatomical, neuromuscular, and biological differences. Years ago, before women engaged in the intense type training that you see today, how would anyone have known about this risk? Now both men and women are training, playing, and performing at maximal levels.

Another factor is the increased level of intense type training, in addition to the amount of time this type of training takes, that young athletes are putting in, in order to improve their abilities, has to be a consideration. Athletes are bigger, stronger, quicker, and faster (even the average athlete) than they ever were. This all amounts to more stress on body parts and thus, more risk of injury. This, in addition to the body not getting enough rest and/or time to recuperate, and not spending enough time keeping muscles flexible enough to move through wide ranges of motion, certainly seems to lend itself to increased risk of injury.

There are probably several other possibilities that I have not covered which may also be contributing factors in this issue. However, my purpose in this article is not to just list them all, but rather to give some food for thought as to why youth sport injuries are increasing, point you in the direction of some good articles that help support this (something I will do at the end), and give some alternative possibilities that may help in decreasing this risk.

Now the body is an amazing piece of machinery; able to heal, get stronger, and better if trained, fed, and treated properly (sleep, rest, etc.). That is why I strongly encourage any athlete to spend a good deal of time on proprioceptive (unconscious joint & limb awareness) training and preventive-type conditioning. The purpose of these types of exercises is to balance strength levels on all sides of a joint and help the body develop a more keen sense of internal subconscious awareness regarding limb and joint movement. This, coupled with functional sports specific type training, flexibility work, proper rest and diet, can and does help to decrease the risk of sustaining athletic injuries. At least that is what any level of logic would tell us. So, with some effort, thought, and research on your part, or the coach’s/trainer’s part, an athlete can increase strength and flexibility, and prevent injury all at the same time. It is worth the effort.

I will attempt to expand on the issue of injury prevention, as described above, and supply references to articles that will help in giving more specific information on decreasing the risk of injury to young athletes in my next article. In this way the athlete will be able to take more control over what happens to them, always a good thing, rather than giving up this control to chance.

I have identified several articles that detail what their authors believe to be underlying causes behind this increase of youth sport injuries. They not only give solid reasoning behind the “why” this is occurring, but also indicate that the severity of injuries has gone up, supporting much of what I have discussed in this article. These articles include:

The growing pains of childhood sports injuries by staff writer Erin Allday of the San Francisco Chronicle,

More Kids Are Suffering Sports Injuries by Serena Gordon of the HealthDay Reporter, U.S. Department of Health & Human Resources,

Minimizing the Risks of Organized Youth Sports from the Health Link at the Medical College of Wisconsin,

ACL Injuries In Female Athletes by Dr. Steven Horwitz from experts on the MomsTeam website,

Increase in adult-type injuries among children and adolescents by Dr. Dieter Lindskog pediatric orthopedist at Yale-New Haven Hospital and assistant professor of orthopedics at the Yale University School of Medicine,

All of these articles, in some manner, support the idea of a current trend in increased youth sports injuries, and that it really is a concern needing to be addressed. Some even suggest possible avenues for prevention. I recommend their reading and hope they shed more light on a very important topic involving youth and their sports participation.


Kirk Mango
Becoming a True Champion

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Organized Functional Training: A Format for Success

If you are an athlete wanting to become better, more successful, maybe even of state or national caliber, you will likely find a multitude of things, or pieces of the puzzle, that need to be addressed in order to reach the level of attainment you are seeking. It can become overwhelming if you do not create for yourself an organized and functional way of handling all that must be done. I know for myself, I kept moving forward by following a specifically organized schedule of training created from a thought process that focused on organization and functionality. This training schedule, and thought process, was something I added to and adapted as I moved up the learning curve toward objectives and goals I had set. And it was something I followed with religious vigor. My purpose was to make sure I “covered all bases.” I just was not willing to leave anything up to chance.

As I moved from the athletic arena into the coaching field and started applying the same principles I used as an athlete to the athletes under my direction, I grew to better understand the intricacies and effectiveness of this process. However, it was not until recently, and with reflection on both my coaching and athletic career, that I was able to simplify the thought process into its four principle parts.

I. Fundamentals

These are the skills, techniques, and strategies that make up the most basic components of any sport or activity – things you simply cannot play the game without. Being able to execute these at the highest level is what builds the foundation for an athlete to reach his/her potential. Like building a house of cards, your fundamentals represent the bottom row that all other rows are stacked on. The more sturdily this first row is put together, the stronger everything else placed upon it will be.

Practice of my fundamentals was definitely a central focus in my training. I currently see too many coaches and athletes neglect this, especially with younger athletes, when development of fundamental skills is most important. Those who consistently concentrate on their fundamentals, no matter how good they get, are most likely to reach their athletic potential.

II. Advanced Skills and Technical Elements

This is where the bulk of your training will be focused. Any skill, technique, method, or concept beyond a basic fundamental of your sport is considered advanced and would be included in this section. It is within this area that the strength of your fundamentals, discussed above, show their true merits. When foundations are strong, the harder skills in this section will be much easier to master. A basketball player working on a 3 point shot will have a much easier time becoming proficient at it if his/her shooting techniques are solid much closer to the basket. A volleyball player will only become skillful at passing more difficult serves if their basic passing techniques are sound.

III. Fitness and Conditioning Elements

This section focuses on the physical training that builds the skill-related fitness components of strength, speed, quickness, agility, power, balance, and reaction time necessary to master both I and II above. As athletes condition, train, and improve their fitness levels in these areas, they will see a dramatic improvement in the effectiveness and efficiency of all other skills used in the sport they play. Concentrated and focused time in this section will pay big dividends for any athlete seeking high levels of performance. In addition, a well designed, functional, and well executed fitness and conditioning program reduces the risk of sports-related injury.

IV. Mental and Emotional Elements

This section is one that few really take much time to consider. It encompasses all the intrinsic (internal) philosophical and supportive concepts and principles that comprise a significant part of an athlete’s belief system and which, in turn, determine how the athlete acts. They include athletes’ character and integrity, his/her work ethic and mindset (how they think), and even their goals, desire, and ability to persevere, to name a few. They are aspects that have their start inside oneself, but, more importantly, help to dictate any action that is taken. And just as Fundamentals build the foundation for Advanced Skills and Technical Elements; this section gives the athlete a solid ground from which to build all three of the components detailed above.

I cannot emphasize enough the interconnectedness between all four of these areas. The overlap that occurs, and support that each gives to the other, is necessary in order for this process to generate the maximum potential of any athlete. A guide in its simplest form, it is essentially the same process I used as an athlete and as a coach.

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40+ High School Athletes Suspended: What’s Changed? Part II

In Part I of 40+ High School Athletes Suspended: What’s Changed? I discussed the situation from which the title of this blog was created and referenced an earlier time to show some comparison. In this installment, I would like to actually answer the question posed in the subtitle, What’s Changed?

From my vantage point, the changes I see are more subtle in nature and less visible to those not working directly with kids; yet, in my opinion, they are certainly significant and impactful. Most would fall under the category of shifting parental attitudes. Kids, whether athletes or not, are kids and it is normal for them to try and exercise their independence by pushing limits. However, parental attitudes about those limits, along with other viewpoints, have certainly shifted or moved. And, as an educator, I have seen this movement continue as each decade passes.

I don’t know about you, but when I was in high school parents were not their kid’s best friend. Don’t get me wrong, I was lucky enough to have a great relationship with my own parents and I could talk with them about anything, and/or get honest sound advice when I needed it; however, I, as did most of my friends, had boundaries and limits. We had curfews, expectations, and rules, and if we stepped over the line, something happened. We did not anticipate or expect our parents to appeal an athletic code violation – let alone take it to court to circumvent a suspension and get us back on the playing field. Parents did not automatically take their son’s or daughter’s side when they did something wrong or protect them from the cost of their own choices. If we got into trouble, we were much more concerned about the consequences we were about to experience at home than the ones given out by the school.

It was uncommon in my day to see attitudes indicating that it was never the kid’s fault or that the rules didn’t apply. The rules did apply to us and, most times, it was our fault.

Parents did not call teachers to take a look at the final exam their son or daughter failed; leaving the initial impression that there must be something wrong with the test not with what their kid either did or did not do. It was rare that students, and student athletes, in my day were given money, cars, spring break vacations, and other expensive items just because we turned 16. If the possibility of getting things like this existed, most of us would have had to earn them somehow. If my memory serves me correct, very few things were just given out free, at least not in the world I lived in.

Personally, I remember one winter in junior high school (just before spring) after saving money and coming up one dollar short of purchasing a new baseball glove I wanted. I asked my father if he could help me out with that last dollar and he said “sure, go shovel the walk and I will give you that dollar.”

Life lessons were taught through the experiences we had as kids and parents were far less likely to get in the way of that learning. The sense of entitlement so many young people seem to exhibit today was just not as prevalent or pervasive in my years growing up. But I digress. Bringing the conversation back to the shift in parental attitudes, more specifically their viewpoint and behavior regarding school athletic codes, there is most assuredly a cause and effect taking place. In light of the shift in parenting attitudes, as detailed above, one can see how a situation brought about through an athletic code violation might be viewed differently by parents today.

I have been mystified by conversations with my own kids, and with other parents, which reveal the large number of parents who do not read the athletic code before signing it, do not require their son or daughter to read it and understand it, or who look the other way when violations occur, let alone create an understanding between them and their offspring that signing this code binds them to the rules within that code. That it is a contract of a code of conduct they sign between them and the school and if they do not agree with what is in the code, plan to abide by it, or use it as a means to make good, sound, healthy choices, then they should not be an athlete. And finally, that if they do sign the code making the choice to become an athlete, and then turn around and choose to violate that code, then they will be held accountable (even expected to hold themselves accountable) for the choice they made.

I am sorry to say that I believe, today, many parents and athletes just sign the code because they have to, not giving it a second thought. It is just a piece of paper they must sign and turn in with their physical, a requirement of the process that they are obligated only to do in order for them to play. How sad that is.

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40+ High School Athletes Suspended: What’s Changed? Part I

Recently reported by Dana Kozlov on Chicago CBS local news, and in Bob Sakamoto’s article 43 York athletes suspended, was a story concerning the recent suspension of 43 high school athletes for breaking their school athletic code. It happened on December 31st, 2008 (New Year’s Eve) where underage athletes were attending a “drinking” party. According to the CBS news report, area residents claimed that the homeowner, a mother in the Elmhurst community, had been home during the party with one resident describing paper taped to the windows and that kids were told to keep the party a secret.

Most of the student athletes suspended were only freshmen and sophomores and will, understandably, have consequences dished out according to the terms set forth in the York High School athletic code. The mother was reportedly charged and arrested for a misdemeanor – “allowing prohibited possession of alcohol,” with jail time as a possibility.

Some will read about this story and think how much kids and parents have changed over the years or how out of control things have gotten, while others will comment that this is “no big deal,” that this type of behavior is inevitable, and that the school has no right to involve themselves in anything kids do outside of school. You only need to view the CBS video link provided to hear the latter.

Of course with such an emphasis in my blog, and most especially in my book, Becoming a True Champion, on athletes making good, sound choices and on development of good character, I most certainly have strong opinions on the subject as well. My first thought after watching this story unfold in the news, along with reading opinions on the internet, was of no surprise and that this is nothing new. That drinking parties like this, involving athletes, are very common, and not just at York High School but at a great many high schools. They are certainly not all happening with parental support or encouragement, as this one appears to have been, but they are most definitely occurring more than many parents might be aware.

I make these statements based on my experience as a former high school athlete and coach, a current high school physical educator, and as a parent of two recently graduated high school athletes. Being able to view situations like this from all four of these perspectives gives one a very unique vantage point from which to comment. That is why I find it confusing, disheartening, and almost amusing, that Robert Wagner (the Athletic Director at York High School) is quoted in the recent article More than More than 40 suspended at York on the Chicago SunTimes Yourseason.com as stating that this situation is “uncommon.”

Unless Mr. Wagner is referring to how uncommon it is to “catch” athletes engaged in this behavior, he is either naïve or practicing his PR skills by trying to diffuse the situation and decrease publicity. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but situations similar to this one occur on most weekends and, in my opinion, it is best to deal with them from a more honest platform; burying your head in the sand or trying to cover up reality for the purpose of school image does no good for anyone. However, please keep in mind what I stated earlier, that York is not unique in having an issue with athletes drinking and violating athletic codes.

This brings me to back to the question provided in the subtitle of this blog, what’s changed? In order to answer that question completely, I need to go back several decades, back to the 70’s when I was an athlete in high school. I can say with all honesty that the athletes in my high school were doing exactly the same thing, with alcohol, that high school athletes are doing today. There were drinking parties almost every weekend and athletes were breaking our school’s athletic code regularly. In fact, there was also the so- called “cool” parent who knowingly allowed this to go on, maybe even provided the alcohol – though I cannot unequivocally confirm that part.

So if there was a good deal of underage athletes drinking over 30 years ago, and there was the occasional parent condoning even supporting this activity, then wouldn’t it be safe to assume that nothing at all has changed? Well, not exactly.

Stay tuned to the answer to what’s changed in Part II of 40+ High School Athletes Suspended: What’s Changed?

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